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There was a time when you could enter the escort business at the web based independent or agency level and make a lot of money. Back then we were more of a “in the know” thing and didn’t have to worry about getting busted either. Vice cops where focused on street level hookers, drug dealers and those trafficking minors.
Times have changed. This recession as they call it, yea right! How about depression, has put a hurting on the sex industry. Oh yes, I said the “sex” word. For those of you who are still in denial, about 90% of escorts are sex workers. Is it all about sex? NO but don’t think for a second some guy is going to pay you just to go to dinner. That is a fantasy often created by those of us who don’t want to accept the truth of what we really are. So to further our denial we come up with pretty words like “Escort” and “Social Companion”. Let me be clear, for those of us at the middle to high end of the business, we are also paid for our time and companionship.
There are many women who are now wanting to become escorts, so much so, the market is getting a bit flooded right now. If you’re thinking of doing this because your mortgage or car payment is due next week and you need immediate cash, I hate to tell you but in many cases it’s not going to happen. You needed to have begun the day after you were laid off months ago. At the higher end of the business it’s all about marketing and what you as a product have to offer. I’ll come back to this later. Read the rest of this entry »
When I started working as a private companion/female escort less than a year ago, I had so many misconceptions about the “world of escorting”. Most of what I thought or should I say thought I knew to be true is what society has coined to be true of the world and I like so many people everywhere believed to be true. Believed it to be the gospel so to speak.
The images that society paints and the moral standards that are implied is that it’s wrong, indecent, humiliating to women, degrading…. only the lowest of women would sell themselves etc….etc…..etc….. Not to mention the “classification” or should I say DE-classification of women socially, morally, physically, emotionally and spiritually by
society of the ladies that escort.
This business has all kind of stories and views. Some are positive however most are negative. Personally I think it has more to do with the people than the business. The agency I work for has a very positive, supportive, structured environment and I’ve never felt safer and more respected. It’s funny when I tell other women that they automatically assume it’s a women run agency and it’s not, it run by a man.
Let’s get something straight, women run agencies can be just as sleazy, negative and unsafe as any other. If you’re going to do this, whatever you do, don’t buy into the myth of sisterhood in this business. Men are simple, predictable, direct and honest about what they want. Women, we back stab while calling you “girlfriend” and giving you a hug. Just ask any one who’s spent four years living in a sorority house.
If you’re going to work with an agency man run or woman run one of the issues that will come up is should I “audition” or not “audition” ?
What’s an audition ?
It’s a test drive more commonly known as screwing the boss to show her or him what you can do. Read the rest of this entry »