The Rewards of being a private companion/escort.

When I started working as a private companion/female escort less than a year ago, I had so many misconceptions about the “world of escorting”. Most of what I thought or should I say thought I knew to be true is what society has coined to be true of the world and I like so many people everywhere believed to be true. Believed it to be the gospel so to speak.

The images that society paints and the moral standards that are implied is that it’s wrong, indecent, humiliating to women, degrading…. only the lowest of women would sell themselves etc….etc…..etc….. Not to mention the “classification” or should I say DE-classification of women socially, morally, physically, emotionally and spiritually by

society of the ladies that escort.

I find it rather amusing, especially now, how society takes it upon itself to judge the women, the men,

the agency owners and the clients of this profession. I could write on that as a separate entity but for today I would just like to share with anyone who is reading my journey into the world of escorting and the many wonderful people I have met a long the way so far. Also, how it has helped me grow as a person…. maybe it will give you insight into a world that is not what it is painted to be, well not at least the part of the planet that I am in…. perhaps it may change your perspectives, beliefs on the escorting world.

First let me tell you about me, I am female, a mother and a college graduate. I have a Master’s degree in a healthcare profession and hold a full time job in the community in which I live. I am also a member of my local denominational church and grew up in my faith from birth. Oh! And I appreciate and listen to classical music… as I write this I am listening to Andrea Bocelli and it still gives me chills. To look at me I am just as normal as you, your sister, your aunt, your best friend, your child’s teacher, your doctor, the receptionist you see everyday or any other female you know and consider the norm. Do I look like an escort?

Well now, that is a good question because that too, is another topic for a separate entry.

Because it flows with the stereotypical image of this world that has been painted by society. Most of the time, escorts are portrayed as streetwalkers. The typical picture is that of the mini-skirt clad, high heeled babe leaning over the window of a car on the street. And in turn follows the typical judgment of drug abuse and alcohol, perhaps homelessness and the “pimp” that abuses them. Now, I know this part of the world does exist and it saddens me…I saw the special that Diane Sawyer did on 20/20 a few weeks ago and I have to be honest… I was devastated by the news footage and my hearts went out to those women. Another entry as I said.

Real quick though: Do I look like that? NO….do I judge those women? Absolutely not. And NOONE should….my favorite quote and how I live my life is according to the quote– “Let he who is without sin cast the first stone….”

I would be the LAST person anyone would think was a professional companion/escort.

And I will let you in on a secret…I love it! It is the most self-rewarding and fulfilling job I have had…well next to being a Mom, of course! I like to think of escorting as a craft, a hobby, an art that is perfected each and every time I meet with someone!

And this brings me to the fun part…. the rewards of my “hobby” let’s call it and why it is so rewarding…the why is made up of two parts:

One part: my growth and me

And part two: the agency that I work for, the man that owns the agency and the clientele that it services.

The agency I work for has become a guiding light for me and for the women that work there. I have grown more personally and spiritually in the time working for Dreams than I have in my lifetime.

I have met men and women that have contributed to my growth in ways I could have only imagined. How? You ask.

Well you see there is a misconception out there that people use this service for one thing and that is SO NOT TRUE!

Let’s put one to bed right now (sorry bad use of words…. wink) but the “attached client”. I have spent intimate time just listening to many gentlemen talk about their lives and provided them with an outlet to just talk…I know, I know men, talk, in the same sentence?….LOL but yes talk! And do they ever…..and I Love IT! Why? Because they need it and it makes me feel good that I can be there for them. They talk about things that their significant other has probably heard a thousand times but to them it is reminiscent of their younger days and yes…less complicated times. And I respond naturally just like their women did the first times they heard it! But for them it’s all about the thrill! The thrill of having some attention!

Let’s face it Ladies we are all guilty of being wrapped to tight with life’s string of stressors and for us it isn’t easy to put the sink full of dishes, the pile of bills, the dentist appointment Sally has next week, what we are baking for the PTO event etc, etc, etc….out of our minds for an hour yet alone spend some time with our men without staring at the ceiling wandering …..”Shoot Did I remember to call the phone company and make that late payment?” and …. How many times has it even slipped out of our mouths? Or you have been caught staring into space and accused of not even being there….. Heck, I have heard men say the whole house has to be clean not just the dishes and the moon and stars have to be aligned just right. Ah well, I am guilty of that one in the past…not anymore as I said I am growing past a lot of my personal bs. But now men they can nine out of ten times put just about anything out of their minds to get down to business with their woman! And enjoy themselves and hours later wander what they were stressed out about…..lol.

A lot of times men need another person to vent to that isn’t their significant other, this doesn’t say that I (we) replace or can even remotely try nor want to try to replace a significant other, it just means that in the busy lives we all are guilty of today, men would rather spend their time with a significant other serving other purposes than rehashing their work week or other stresses.

Most of the men I have met (with the exception of one and well he was just to hung up on his “personal” materials to tear him away from his ego…smile) have been just the sweetest most adoring men you’d ever want to meet. Just normal guys needing an escape, a warm body or a woman to make them feel like they hung the moon even if for an hour or two! Personal attention that is what it is all about.

And I have to say I have more respect for these guys than I do for the guys that lie and cheat on their significant others by having intimate long drawn out emotional affairs. Think about it? This is not personal for either the associate or the client, it is a service and that is it! Just like when you go get your car tuned up or you get a haircut, your nails manicured or your suit dry-cleaned.

The clients of the agency I work for are men and women of middle to upper class. They are respectable, professional and well-mannered just generally very nice people. I have met accountants, bankers, salespeople, clergymen, lawyers, doctors, construction workers, retail workers, teachers and I can tell you they are just normal everyday people.

You would never know they are “escort see-ers”.

My rewards have been so many and so I set up this blog to discuss the rewards, the agency, the owner and the clientele and let you see into the beautiful world of what I do!