Posts Tagged ‘escort diaries’
SEX ON TUESDAY: Questions for a call girl
It is 8 p.m. on a Friday night, and I have a date with one of San Francisco’s most notorious escorts Farrah Habiba who has agreed to meet me in Pacific Heights for a drink at the Lion Pub. As I am getting seated, Samantha walks in wearing a pair of black suede heels, Catwoman-esque mesh tights and a slouchy mid-length tee. I don’t think I’ve ever met anyone who looks quite like Samantha, but her smoky eyes and porcelain skin bring to mind model Gia Carangi circa 1979.
At the young age of 21, Samantha is an independent businesswoman who specializes in VIP escorting and the girlfriend experience. She is absolutely captivating as she immediately talks at ease about how she combines liberal feminism with her BDSM lifestyle and how she finds “vanilla sex” absolutely boring. We chatted about her sex life, most recent tattoos and her progressive take on the world’s oldest profession.
SOOJIN CHANG: Samantha, you attended a prestigious school in San Francisco and grew up in an upper-class neighborhood. If money wasn’t the draw, what influenced your life choices in becoming an escort?
SAMANTHA SPIEGEL: I knew what sex was by the time I was six years old. It was never a hidden, disguised concept for me. I have always been naturally attracted to older men. I remember having my earliest sexual fantasies about my elementary school teachers. Everyone has a certain type, so to say. Mine just happen to be older men. I guess you can call that a type of reverse pedophilia. Younger guys my age do nothing for me physically or emotionally. Because I began to explore my sexuality so early on, by the time I was 14 or 15, I was sure this is what I wanted to do. I knew who and what turned me on.
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The Rewards of being a private companion/escort.
When I started working as a private companion/female escort less than a year ago, I had so many misconceptions about the “world of escorting”. Most of what I thought or should I say thought I knew to be true is what society has coined to be true of the world and I like so many people everywhere believed to be true. Believed it to be the gospel so to speak.
The images that society paints and the moral standards that are implied is that it’s wrong, indecent, humiliating to women, degrading…. only the lowest of women would sell themselves etc….etc…..etc….. Not to mention the “classification” or should I say DE-classification of women socially, morally, physically, emotionally and spiritually by
society of the ladies that escort.